In this article I'm going to give you a few pointers about getting physical with a girl, which after all is your ultimate aim.
Holding Hands
Holding hands is the first component of physicality. It’s not really a requirement since everything else I'm going to explain later can be tried without holding hands first. That said, there's some sexual charge that takes place once you hold a girl's hand.
The tactic you use to make this happen occurs when you first introduce yourself:
When You’re on a Date
When on a date, if the girl you’re with is close to you while you're approaching a destination, simply take your hand into hers. Many guys ask, “How will i know the best time to make this happen?”
Listen, if you believe you should be holding her hands, HOLD HER HANDS. Listening to what your gut has to say is definitely a highly effective thing to do. Just remember that it’s always beneficial to let go from time to time and then hold hands again; you don't want to appear like you’re desperate.
Hugging Her
Hugging ought to be a natural move. So what do I mean by that? Well, if you’re going to meet up with a girl for a date, you must get the into the habit of hugging her when you meet. If you just shake hands or, even worse, wave then you’re basically announcing to her that you’re a pussy.
If instead you walk straight up to her and give her a hug, you’re making it perfectly clear that further down the line of the date you’re likely to do more than merely hug. If it's a first date or for some other reason nothing happens at the end of the date, when it's time to go, give her another hug.
Hugs build trust and comfort with each other, so make sure you take action - it’s vital.
Kissing Her
Kissing is proven to work much like holding hands. If you’re gut is suggesting to you that you should kiss her, then KISS HER. The strange thing about kissing is that you’ll get body language hints from the girl when you should kiss her - almost certainly she’ll lick her lips, pucker up, even occasionally stare at you while implementing chap-stick. You'll find clues so be aware of them, look out for them and once you seem them, go for it.
Some recommendations…
When it comes to sex with a girl you need to start testing out different things to find out what turns her off and on. Once you've found out what she really likes and what gets her all hot and bothered, then make sure you perfect it and do it every time. Then she'll want sex with you over and over, all the time! In short, be a gentleman and look after her needs, giving her what she wants and then she'll give you what you want!
Holding Hands
Holding hands is the first component of physicality. It’s not really a requirement since everything else I'm going to explain later can be tried without holding hands first. That said, there's some sexual charge that takes place once you hold a girl's hand.
The tactic you use to make this happen occurs when you first introduce yourself:
- You hold out your hand as if you're going to give her a handshake, and then she reaches out and shakes your hand.
- Start chatting while still holding her hand. It's important not to hold it too firm but simply soft until she’s comfortable with you holding it.
- Obviously, if she pulls away don’t force it and crush her hand, just shift her hand with yours and find out just how long you can hold hands with her.
When You’re on a Date
When on a date, if the girl you’re with is close to you while you're approaching a destination, simply take your hand into hers. Many guys ask, “How will i know the best time to make this happen?”
Listen, if you believe you should be holding her hands, HOLD HER HANDS. Listening to what your gut has to say is definitely a highly effective thing to do. Just remember that it’s always beneficial to let go from time to time and then hold hands again; you don't want to appear like you’re desperate.
Hugging Her
Hugging ought to be a natural move. So what do I mean by that? Well, if you’re going to meet up with a girl for a date, you must get the into the habit of hugging her when you meet. If you just shake hands or, even worse, wave then you’re basically announcing to her that you’re a pussy.
If instead you walk straight up to her and give her a hug, you’re making it perfectly clear that further down the line of the date you’re likely to do more than merely hug. If it's a first date or for some other reason nothing happens at the end of the date, when it's time to go, give her another hug.
Hugs build trust and comfort with each other, so make sure you take action - it’s vital.
Kissing Her
Kissing is proven to work much like holding hands. If you’re gut is suggesting to you that you should kiss her, then KISS HER. The strange thing about kissing is that you’ll get body language hints from the girl when you should kiss her - almost certainly she’ll lick her lips, pucker up, even occasionally stare at you while implementing chap-stick. You'll find clues so be aware of them, look out for them and once you seem them, go for it.
Some recommendations…
- Don’t think twice when you’re moving in for the kiss. Just go for it 100%.
- Don’t become a mouth raper and go 200%. You would like her to be able to kiss you back! So start kissing 100% then start backing off gradually so she begins advancing nearer to your lips.
- It's possible to practice your kissing abilities on your hand. You can create a mouth using your fist and kiss the most fleshy part (where the thumb and pointer finger join). This might sound strange, but it’ll help you to fully grasp if you’re applying an excessive amount of force, or if there’s way too much saliva.
- When kissing a girl, you should make sure you get your hands on her physique. Your entire body staying still while you kiss her is a huge NO-NO - it's very wooden. Be smooth and touch her all over while you kiss, it can make it much more electric for her too..
When it comes to sex with a girl you need to start testing out different things to find out what turns her off and on. Once you've found out what she really likes and what gets her all hot and bothered, then make sure you perfect it and do it every time. Then she'll want sex with you over and over, all the time! In short, be a gentleman and look after her needs, giving her what she wants and then she'll give you what you want!